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Wednesday, April 6, 2011

The Silent Treatment

Imagine a day where you are not allowed to talk or make noise all day. You must go through all your duties without talking, not even a whisper. There are peers all around you, also going throughout the day in silence. The others make little signs to you. Signs like waving "Hi!" with a silent gesture as you pass by. You sit side-by-side with your peers sharing the space at your work area, without talking, without making contact verbally, and without any verbal social interaction. On occasion, you may raise your hand to ask a question to the overseer. To go to the bathroom, you must make a hand sign and wait for someone to allow you  to leave.

That is how I've spent almost every day substitute teaching. Yesterday, I spent the day with a Kindergarten class in which I was instructed that their school is a "silent learning" school. No talking is allowed anywhere... except the playground. No talking in the classroom. No talking in the halls. No talking in the bathrooms. No talking at lunch. Nothing.

It is such an unnatural experience. I allowed my class yesterday to talk during free play times like stations (centers) and art. A teacher came marching into the room and informed the class that they were not following the "silent learning" rules. I was then chastised for not knowing their school and classroom rules. The children were not loud, quite the opposite. They were simply talking in regular, "inside voice" volumes. This is not the first time this has happened to me and is probably the reason I was banned from another school recently.

I am often asked, "How can we fix public schools?"

I'm beginning to think there is no fixing them. I am not allowed to have any voice (no pun intended) or say in how a classroom is managed. What's worse, the downturn in the way our society is instructed at public school is becoming much more strict and prison like than I've ever seen before.

10 comments:

  1. I am so thankful my kids go to the school they do. I'm not sure what I would do if they were in that school. It makes me really count my blessings we can have our kids attend this great, small, K-12 country school.

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  2. Horrifying! And yet the world is so messed up, no one can see it. We are surely in an unraveling.

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  3. Jen - I do believe there are exceptions to the rule, especially in locations where their is more educational choice. In Missouri, there are no charter schools and choice is very limited as far as public school go. That is why there are so many homeschoolers here.

    I am so thankful for the freedom of choice.

    Verena - We are definitely in an unraveling period. It is something to be very aware of and speak out against.

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  4. I'm curious what mom's do who work? I am grateful I'm not put in that situation to where I would need to home school because the schools are so poor. I can't imagine working full time and home-schooling six kids and balance everything else going on in my life. Again - I count my blessings that I'm not faced with that while my kids are still young.

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  5. You know, John Taylor Gatto said that public schools should not be fixed-- that they do EXACTLY what they were designed to do, and they do it very well.

    (Sorry-- I started reading "Dumbing Us Down", and what remaining rose-colored memories I've had are now crystal clear. When I see what public schools are doing to children-- what they did to ME-- I am outraged.

    Isn't it funny that it takes a New York State Teacher of the Year to help we victims of the public school system see it for what it truly is? *sigh*

    /rant over! ;-D (I'll play nice now, Celeste. I promise!)

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  6. You know, John Taylor Gatto has said that public school do NOT need fixing-- that they do exactly what they were designed to do, and they excel at it.

    I agree!

    In re-reading his book "Dumbing Us Down" this time, I can honestly say that the rose colored memories are becoming increasingly more clear to me. When I ponder on what the system has done and is doing to chilren-- and did to ME!-- I am outraged.

    Isn't it funny that it takes a 30+ year veteran Teacher of the Year to help us see the damage? Our conveyor belt educations were that good. *sigh*

    Okay, okay! /rant over! (I promise to play nice Celeste! Don't ban me! ;-D )

    Love you,
    Rachel

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  7. Rachel - I would never ban you...we have very similar views. :-)

    I think that working in the public schools and being a homeschooler are like being schizophrenic. I really hate what the public schools are doing to our society. I see these children literally being crushed in creativity and freedom of speech are squelched in the guise of "order". Behavior is more important than knowledge. The behavior "silent learning" is teaching is that you have no say in anything. You are a drone.

    I'm trying to get something else going so that I can quit substituting. It is making me crazy seeing what I see.

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  8. BTW...the little word code that I had to type in, for my last comment was "nonjoy!" Hmmm...interesting, isn't it. It seems that's where our world is at...in a state of "non joy." (Oh...and the word code for this comment is evilin! (evil in...that's too scary!)

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  9. Don't know where my first comment went, but I was just saying that since our daughter just got diagnosed with Autism, it has been recommended that we seek further evaluations through the school system. We won't be doing that, because I don't want to have anything to do with the public school system here. We already went that route with our oldest son, in the special needs preschool and they just let him down. I am grateful for the freedom to homeschool and be a mother, and where needed, a therapist for our children! :0)

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  10. Something happened within Blogger that made one comment not post (lost in cybersapce) and one comment post twice. Sorry!

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